The Internal Clitoris
by melodiousmsm
Posted on November 30, 2011Consider this: In over five million years of human evolution, only one organ has come to exist for the sole purpose of providing pleasure – the clitoris. It is not required for reproduction. It doesn’t have a urethra running through it like the penis, and thus, does not urinate. Its sole function – its singular, wonderful purpose – is to make a woman feel good!!
Sadly, it is precisely because the clitoris has no function apart from female pleasure that science has neglected to study it as intricately as the penis. In my last post I wrote about Princess Marie Boneparte and her revolutionary work on the female orgasm. There was however, one piece of pertinent information she was lacking that science had not yet discovered: the true size and scope of the clitoris.
Try asking the next person you encounter to tell you where the clitoris is located. Having posed this question to others many times myself, I’ll guess that the majority of answers you receive will sound something like, “It’s that small bulb at the top of my lips,” or, “That’s the button up under the hood.” Although these responses aren’t exactly wrong, the interesting truth is that the majority of the clitoris is actually within the pelvis – that is, it’s far more internal than external. Even most of the women I coach, women who are generally worldly and well-informed about their own bodies, react with a combination of fascination and confusion when I explain that their clitoris extends deep within them.
The scientific name for the external “little button” or “bulb” is glans. Not to be confused with glands, glans simply refers to a small circular mass. This little structure contains approximately 8,000 sensory nerve fibers; more than anywhere else in the human body and nearly twice the amount found on the head of a penis! From reading her work, it’s clear that Marie Bonepart mistakenly thought that the clitoris was completely comprised of the glans; and because it is super sensitive and all anyone can see of the organ, her confusion is mirrored by most women today. The fact is, though, that most of the clitoris is subterranean, consisting of two corpora cavernosa (corpus cavernosum when referring to the structure as a whole), two crura (crus when referring to the structure as a whole), and the clitoral vestibules or bulbs.
The glans is connected to the body or shaft of the internal clitoris, which is made up of two corpora cavernosa. When erect, the corpora cavernosa encompass the vagina on either side, as if they were wrapping around it giving it a big hug!
Sketch of an erect clitoris
The corpus cavernosum also extends further, bifurcating again to form the two crura. These two legs extend up to 9cm, pointing toward the thighs when at rest, and stretching back toward the spine when erect. To picture them at rest, imagine the crura as a wishbone, coming together at the body of the clitoris where they attach to the pubic symphysis.
Near each of the crura on either side of the vaginal opening are the clitoral vestibules. These are internally under the labia majora. When they become engorged with blood they actually cuff the vaginal opening causing the vulva to expand outward. Get these puppies excited, and you’ve got a hungrier, tighter-feeling vaginal opening in which to explore!
What does all this mean? Well, for starters, we can finally end that age-old debate of vaginal vs. clitoral orgasms.
In 1953, Kinsey wrote: “The vagina walls are quite insensitive in the great majority of females … There is no evidence that the vagina is ever the sole source of arousal, or even the primary source of erotic arousal in any female.”
Then in 1970, Germaine Greer published The Female Eunuch, which scoffed at Kinsey’s theory. She wrote, “It is nonsense to say that a woman feels nothing when a man is moving his penis inside her vagina. The orgasm is qualitatively different when the vagina can undulate around the penis instead of a vacancy.”
Interestingly, they’re both right. The vagina is not the sole source of arousal, though to stimulate the inner clitoris you can greatly do so by manipulating, displacing, and exploring the vagina with a penis or other apparatus.
Sketch of an erect clitoris
Many women can bring themselves to orgasm without ever inserting anything inside of themselves. They are causing their internal clitoris to become erect and likely stimulating their glans, bulbs, and crura by rubbing themselves on the outside. The corpus cavernousum is the additional erectile tissue encompassing the vagina, and greatly erogenous when stimulated internally.
Let’s also remember, female orgasm is not solely about the clitoris and vagina either. It is far more complex and also involves the workings of multiple nerves, tissues, muscles, reflexes, and mental effort. Some women can think themselves to orgasm. Others can orgasm simply by flexing their pelvic muscles. Considering all the components involved plus the variability of human beings and their anatomies, it’s extremely important to remember no two people are the same. What works for one woman may not work for another. In other words, it’s all custom under the hood.
What really blows my mind is the plethora of misinformation that exists in textbooks, professional medical guides, and on the internet. Take for example, in one of my undergraduate textbooks titled Understanding Human Sexuality, the clitoris is depicted merely as just the glans. The sad fact is it wasn’t until the 1990’s that researchers began using MRI to study the internal structure of the clitoris. By then, the intricate details of the penis were already well known.
Urologist Helen O’Connell of the Royal Melbourne Hospital set out to better understand the microscopic nerve supply to the clitoris using MRI, something that had already been done for men with regard to their sexual function in the 70s. In 1998 she published her findings, informing the medical world of the true scope and size of the clitoris. Yet ironically that same year, men in America began popping Viagra to cure erectile dysfunction.
Sketch of a clitoris at rest
In 2005 The American Urological Association published one of Dr. O’Connell’s reports on clitoral anatomy. The report itself even states, “The anatomy of the clitoris has not been stable with time as would be expected. To a major extent its study has been dominated by social factors … Some recent anatomy textbooks omit a description of the clitoris. By comparison, pages are devoted to penile anatomy.” The report also mentions how seemingly impossible it is to understand the internal structure of the clitoris with just one diagram. Several are required to truly get a comprehensive understanding of it.
Alas it wasn’t until as recent as 2009, French researchers Dr. Odile Buisson and Dr. Pierre Foldès gave the medical world it’s first complete 3-D sonography of the stimulated clitoris. They did this work for three years without any proper funding. Thanks to them, we now understand how the erectile tissue of the clitoris engorges and surrounds the vagina – a complete breakthrough that explains how what we once considered to be a vaginal orgasm is actually an internal clitoral orgasm.
The internal erect clitoris
Dr. Foldès has been performing surgery on women who have suffered from clitoral mutilation, restoring pleasure to over 3,000 circumcised patients. He also gets passionate about the lack of study with regards to the clitoris:
“When I returned to France to treat genital mutilation, I was amazed that they were never tried. The medical literature tells us the truth about our contempt for women. For three centuries, there are thousands of references to penile surgery, nothing on the clitoris, except for some cancers or dermatology -and nothing to restore its sensitivity. The very existence of an organ of pleasure is denied, medically. Today, if you look at the anatomy books that all surgeons have, you will find two pages above. There is a real intellectual excision. “
The internal erect clitoris
So there you have it. As if all the repression, cultural influences, guilt, childhood imprints, and fear of being our true selves center stage in society weren’t enough, we also have the politics of medicine keeping us in the dark. The great news is that researchers like Dr. Buisson, Dr. Foldès, and Dr. O’Connell are paving the way for greater knowledge … and greater pleasure!
Hope springs … internal!
Now for something a little less serious and more fun! Here is a video of artist and sex educator, Betty Dodson, drawing the internal clitoris. Note: the glans are accidentally labeled “glands” in the video, but remember the proper term is glans!! Enjoy!
-Ms. M
Have a question or comment? Email me here: AdviceFromMsM@gmail.com
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Best article ever. It has explained a LOT. E-mailing this to my husband.
We’ve got some things to discuss. lol
Considering e-mailing this to my hubby. Not sure it’d do any good though.
It couldn’t hurt
You’ll be surprised…
It’s none of my business, but I’m gonna say this anyway: if your husband doesn’t care enough about your pleasure and feelings to read this and learn as much as he can about making sex pleasurable for you too, is he even worth it? You’re better than that. Don’t put up with your sexual needs being second to his convenience.
Right on!! You tell go girl!
I agree. I’d rather be alone and in a relationship with my hand.
As a guy in a stable, committed, relationship, I agree with Claire. He expects you to please him I’m sure… if he’s not willing to do the same for you, then you have a very lopsided relationship that would probably best be addressed by therapy.
Discuss? All this knowledge and it’s just a discussion! lol
You’ve got a academic way of writing which I don’t often see. Just thought I’d let you know
Thank you so much for this post. I am very interested in what you have to say. I will be back to see what other stuff you post.
Howdy. Basically want to actually write a quick note and tell you that I unquestionably concur with your particular post. Extremely spot on.
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I was trying to explain this to a female friend of mine the other day. Now I shall send her this. Doesn’t hurt to have a bit of refresher myself. Us dudes should probably have a poster of this on our walls. Thanks!
Maybe it would be considered pornographic by some prude .
Very well written and accurate information. More information such as this needs to be made available to the public. I would love to use this page as a link from my blog.
I noticed in your article that you mentioned a few times about penis power, the penis getting far more attention than a woman’s body. This is so true but for many readers who may not be connecting to that very hard truth, I wanted to just add that we live in a patriarchal society and that lends itself to the focus on male dominated subjects and that includes medicine! Women are the last to be thought about concerning research, how our bodies work or even correctly and positively payed attention too during medical procedures, examinations, surgery’s. Out of all the Major nations in this world we in the US (Doctors) recommend women get their uterus’ taken out of their bodies with no real medical reason to do so! Women who suffer from minor and sometimes major illness do not need to have their uterus’ removed but these male Dr’s are telling them they should and will lie and say that it has no bearing on their sexual pleasure. Well, that is a lie, the uterus is a key player in achieving sexual fulfillment. They are robbing us of our POWER. However, having exposed this lie that is NOT to say that women who have had this done can not embrace this area of themselves and grasp back their power and create again sexually, they can! It’s just another path down a multifaceted road of feminine energy that allows for our sexual prowess to be re-birthed!
More and more research is being done to understand the woman’s body but more needs to be done.
Thanks for the article.
Be well… and rock on!
Nisha Moon
I so agree with you , i had a hysterectomy for cancer, i have nothing left, sex is nonexistent, no sense doing any thing that doesn’t work any way, male doctors need an up bringing,
Hi Nisha,
What you are saying sounds unfair to me. Breast cancer is the most researched of all cancers. More generally, feminism, at least in the US, is quickly becoming dated. Women have been more successful than men in their educational outcomes and salary level (yes, it’s true!) Women are also healthier, and consume a disproportionate share of health resources. An average woman today is more educated and successful than a man. Women are still underrepresented at the highest level of achievement, but there are many objective reasons for this. Had their been any systematic discrimination of women, it would show as a discrepancy in salary and education.
Michael
Unfortunately, you’re wrong. Women are still paid less on average than men, although the gap is smaller than it used to be. Women are underrepresented in graduate-level education to this day. Women are much more likely to be sexually harassed or assaulted than men. And the lack of women at the top levels of many fields (such as politics or the military) reflect the current and historical oppression of women.
“It would show up as SALARY????” Women earn 70% on the dollar in the USA MUCH less anywhere else.
You are a male and obviously don’t get this….still telling all of the women here that YOU the MALE know
more than we do. THAT’s the patriarchal attitude.
This is why so many males have an issue with “feminists”.
Disagreeing with a woman does not make one some sort of misogynist pig, any more than disagree with someone of a different race makes someone a racist. The truth of matter is always more complicated than the sound bites. Of , course there is still a pay gap, and that is a problem. Some of it is from blatant discrimination and those people found to be guilty of pay discrimination should be punished to the fullest extent of the law, but much more of it is of a more insidious type of discrimination. Women disproportionately leave the workforce to raise children. Most do so of their own accord, but also, because of societal pressure on a woman to “be a good mother” by taking care of her kids, and societal pressure on men to “be a good father” by supporting the family when the woman leaves the work force. This leaves women years behind their male colleagues and accounts for a vast majority of the pay discrepancy. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/13/business/economy/motherhood-still-a-cause-of-pay-inequality.html?_r=0
Michael saying the feminism in the US has become become dated is not the same as saying that it has become obsolete. There is still a lot to be done in terms of gender equality, but it seems like mainstream feminist thought is still fixated on the pay discrepancy as a largely discrimination issue.
I am male, and want to consider myself a feminist, but like many of my male colleagues feel threatened by a feminist ideology that emphasizes the victimization of women by a male dominated society. As far as I can see, many american feminists perpetuate a male dominated society by measuring female success by how well they have infiltrated traditionally male roles. Perhaps I’m just bitter that there is no masculinist society advocating for paternity leave, male elementary school teachers, the dignity of stay at home fathers, and condemning women for assuming that I can fix that leaky faucet. I don’t mean to downplay the discrimination women have suffered, and continue to suffer to this day, but to explain that when folks like Michael say that feminism is outdated, it is less to say that there is no progress to be made by women in terms of gender equality than it is to say that we are all victims of a society that tells women they are bad mothers if they are dedicated to their careers, and tells men they are lazy if they decide to be the primary caregiver for their children. I sincerely hope I have not offended any of you and that I’ve shed some light on why well intentioned men like Michael and I chaff at some of the rhetoric in these comments.
i don’t understand why women would want equality with men. It would mean giving up the advantages they have. They live longer have more choices in how they want to live there lives. The difference in the statistic in earnings is more than made up in the added costs men need to assume. Also women in general put great value on a mans earnings before entertaining a relationship.
Michael,
I don’t know what wishful-thinking planet you live on but it certainly isn’t the same one I occupy.
Here’s some statistics to show you that your salary level statement is flawed.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male%E2%80%93female_income_disparity_in_the_United_States
http://usgovinfo.about.com/od/censusandstatistics/a/paygapgrows.htm
http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1983185,00.html
I can’t quickly find refutation of your thought that more resources go to women’s health care than men’s but I seriously doubt it. According simply to how much more easily men can get viagra than women can get birth control, I’d say you’re easily wrong there as well. I suspect part of the statistics you may be looking at are explained by that fact that more women are generally *willing* to consult a doctor than men are. And yes, that is a generalization but one that is held up by research.
There can be no doubt whatsoever in any reasonable mind that we live in a patriarchal society.
Michael,
Feminism firstly is not dated in the least. And the discrepancy you mention regarding salary and education deserves more than a sentence of elaboration. There is a HUGE discrepancy in pay between men in women across careers. If you don’t believe, check out Feminist Philosophers blog about academic female philosophers getting paid a good $20-30,000+ under what male academic philosophers make. Likewise, check out the newly signed Lily Ledbetter act and check out how she was screwed out of thousands of dollars over her years at Goodyear because she was a woman. And although education is becoming accessible on the whole, it is also becoming more costly and this significantly shifts that accessibility to the more wealthy.
A really really important thing to remember when asserting that women are receiving better salaries and achieving more success than they did say in the 50′s is that WHITE women on the whole are achieving these things. Unfortunately minorities, especially minority women, suffer from the same debilitating factors as they always have; the improvements have not been nearly as significant as for white women. Statistics demonstrate this what with minorities having shorter life spans on the whole, less income, less education and less access to it, etc.
Your brief mention of women being underrepresented at the “highest level of achievement” (whatever that is exactly) as being the result of “objective reasons” is blatantly false. For instance, if a woman wants to gain tenure as a professor, she is much less likely because of the discrimination that stems from maternity leave. It is often assumed that a female professor will require maternity leave later on in her career and even if she does, it is seen more as a detriment than as a right. The other side of this is that many male professors who seek maternity leave are discriminated against as well because of the perception that fathers cannot possibly be stay-at-home parents, that this is a requirement solely of the mother. This type of discrimination that befalls many female academics does not possess “objective reason;” it is plain sexism.
Lastly, and very very crucial to a proper discussion of feminism, is the understanding that just like so many other subjects and theories out there, you need to understand that there are many faces of feminism. Just as there are many different people, there are many different perspectives that play into analyzing what is feminism and notably what it means to be a feminist. Unfortunately the majority of the American population see stereotypes that supposedly describe who is a feminist and what that means, these being extremely negative and very incorrect. For a good general discussion of feminism and its many faces and uses, I suggest reading “Feminism is for Everybody” by bell hooks. This book is written for the general lay person and is not overly scholarly. Michael, I feel that if you want to better yourself and the women you love around you, digging a little deeper into feminism beyond what the media rants and raves about will suit you better.
Thanks, and love,
Ashleigh
Thank you for an excellent rebuttal! Saying that misogyny is over because there are powerful/successful women is like saying that racism is over because we have a black president! It’s crazy, but people still act as if feminism is somehow “dated” when there are so many aspects of society that are blatantly sexist.
You females are all right and righteous! We males are all stupid and subversive! So sorry we are in your way ladies! Pardon us.
You sound like a monkey
Awesome! (Yes, i’m a man, and no, i’m not being sarcastic.)
in australia, twice as much money is spent by the national cancer institute on breast cancer research as prostate cancer. in the UK, breast cancer receives slightly more than 10x more funding than prostate cancer. similar figures for this exist for most of the developed world. the reason why susi cant find counter evidence to this is probably because it doesnt exist.
i don’t know if getting viagra is easier or not than getting female birth control. i do know that i have never had trouble nor do i know anyone who has ever had trouble getting female birth control.
men’s life expectancy in the uk is 5 years lower than it is for woman. not sure about other countries. but very possibly due to men being higher risk takers and being less inclined to go to the doctor for regular checkups etc.
woman are unfortunately more prone to sexual harassment and assault than men. they are also more likely to report harassment/assault if it occurs, however. it is in practice difficult to claim a broad statement such as “Women are much more likely to be sexually harassed or assaulted than men”. it may very well be true. but any figures that are brought up as evidence will be flawed.
“Lastly, and very very crucial to a proper discussion of feminism, is the understanding that just like so many other subjects and theories out there, you need to understand that there are many faces of feminism.”
very true. unfortunately there just are sooooo many people (women and men) out there who bring what could be a noble group of people down to a shameful level of hypocrisy
sam
Breast cancer is the most researched of all cancers.
= if that is true, it means that it is the most lucrative cancer for the medical research industry.
What do you mean by “feminism, at least in the US, is quickly becoming dated”
If “Women have been more successful than men in their educational outcomes” perhaps the reason is that they were more diligent in their studies and perhaps are better students. Maybe women are even smarter. Period.
If “Women are . . healthier”, perhaps it is that women take care of themselves better, that men who forever want Mommie to take care of them.
And perhaps the “consume a disproportionate share of health resources” is better translated into “women are a more lucrative ‘health’ care market than men.” Women are snaged into the meds web as early as pre-puberty. Men enter the picture noticeably only decades late.
And finally, please share what the “many objective reasons for “ women’s underrepresentation at the highest level of achievement are.
Hello Michael,
Women do not make as much money as men. That has been covered here by others in response to your remarks.
Research for womens health care is also far behind research for men.
There have been treatments for mens prostate problems for decades now. Prostatic cancer w/ early detection is very curable with a low mortality rate.
There is no good, accurate test for ovarian cancer to this day and many women continue to die daily. It is often asymptomatic until it has metastisised, making the need for an accurate, early detection test that much more crucial. Womens health does not seem to be as important as mens in many cases by researchers. Little is known about HRT and heart disease in women with conflicting treatments and research adding to the confusion felt by many. age. Hopefully this will soon change.
Wonderful article, but I disagree with the premise that the clitoris “exist for the sole purpose of providing pleasure,” because pleasure is a necessity for a woman to *want* to have sex. Pleasure is probably THE prime motivator for seeking sex.
Trom
You seem to be missing the point.. The penis has the urethera, which allows it to piss. It has parts to keep the pissing and the ejaculation from happening at the same time as well. So it has a dual purpose.
Can you give me any other medically valid reason for the clitoris to exist?
Just curious Lori by what you mean by “medically valid reason.”
The largest sex organ in the body…..one’s brain.
What about skin? It is the biggest organ so they say.
I knew Nisha Moon’s comment would lead to a women v men shitfight.. Folks we are different get over it; it is not a competition, cooperation is much better.
I am watching “Why Sex is Fun” on the Discovery Channel this evening. The subject is the female orgasm, and has a lot of this new info on the clitoris. The clitoris’ one function is to cause orgasm, orgasm in women seems to cause a pumping action that moves sperm on to the fallopian tubes. In fact the majority of sperm is routed to whichever tube is nearest the egg that is about to be (or has recently been) released from the ovaries.
I saw that too Bill. Made sense to me. Pleasure and purpose!
Quite the feminist spin to the article, but overall a quite informative read. Well Done
It’s not feminist, it’s facts of history. There is no remarkable feminist spin whatsoever, she is simply stating how progressed penile anatomy research was in comparison to clitoral. The truth about patriarchy is just unsettling.
Your comment, Male, just adds to how I feel about patriarchy generally. Patriarchy….socially and within religion, is what’s wrong with our society in the first place. Unless I’m unenlightened about your assessment, I’m reading that you believe that WHAT truth about patriarch, is “just unsettling.” In what way?/
I like this discussion of patriarchy but let’s get a good working definition, shall we?
Patriarchy: patriarchy |ˈpātrēˌärkē|
noun ( pl. -archies)
a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family and descent is traced through the male line.
• a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.
• a society or community organized in this way.
In feminism, this term is typically used to describe a system in which men are the dominate group. This means that the system itself exists primarily for their benefit (not negating that other groups can still obtain some benefits but not most of them) and is set up in order to maintain the status quo of men being the dominate group. This system requires that there are intricate working sub-systems (e.g. racism, agism, classism to name a few) that operate to govern all groups within the patriarchal system to maintain that system. This is a hegemonic system that depends upon separation and categorization of people into perceived and reinforced groups, such as women, men, minorities, etc. As evident from the group labels, these groupings can be based upon sex, gender, race, age, class/income status, sexual orientation, etc. What is important to remember is that even if a person does not personally ascribe to a group label, that person can still be grouped according to an outside perception and treated as such.
A really good read that will aid in understanding power dynamics is Michel Foucault’s “Discipline and Punish.”
Awesome! So glad you broke it down with a definition.
Dissembling is much more difficult when terms are clearly defined.
This explains so much…
Wow, this is really very interesting!! Do you have any sources, particularly for the pictures? I’d like to read more about this.
Bookmarked! Thanks for an amazing post, will read your others posts.
I found this fascinating and informative. Especially loved Betty’s video. However, I’m curious that there is no mention of the G-spot. How does it tie in to these explanations? I’ve read before that the G-spot may be the internal portion of the clitoris — is that what this is getting at?
I noticed that there was no mention of the G spot, too. I would like to know more about that. Tantric teachings say that the g spot is your minus pole and that the clit is the plus pole of your sexuality. i.e. g spot sexual feeling is receptive and clitoral is outwards oriented. Interesting debate
As an older woman who has been to “California” and “tantric” events, I must say I never could understand WHAT people were talking about the G-spot. It did NOT seem a SPOT to me, and a lot of the TANTRIC teachers seemed aloof to me, in essense saying “WE know more about your body, are sexier…” and that’s why you are here so give us $$$.
There was also MUCH study done there in “workshops” about the three kinds of fluid ejaculates that women have. No mention of any of these in print/medicine that I know of, but one woman taught quite a few to do the GUSHING one, just by this explanation: When a person is becoming sexually involved, their body gives the mind little bits of excitement from its perceptions. The mind accepts /rejects these and adds them up until orgasm occurs. Got it? OKAY. So when a woman is doing that, she can ALSO notice which pieces the MAN is getting / adding to his excitement and which he is missing!!! When HIS excitement becomes a good match for HERS, fluid can flow repeatedly in gushes from the vagina, essentially welcoming the man to enter. Not talking about the slippery gel formed vaginally during the ovulatory part of the mooncycle. This is MUCH more copious, liquid and sweet smelling.
See what I stated to PS about that.
This article is fascinating and explains a LOT. If you are asking about the G Spot, it is pretty obvious. Just look at the diagram again. Yes, it IS stimulating the internal clitoris. Also, if you notice, though this article doesn’t mention it, there appears to be part of the clitoris that extends parallel to the anus. Very informative.
Yes, the article is saying that G-Spot orgasms are clitoral orgasms. A G-Spot orgasm is a vaginal orgasm after all; that’s what most researchers are talking about when they mention/discuss vaginal orgasms. There’s also reliable information about all of this on Wikipedia (from reliable sources in their references sections).
The “g-spot” is not just one spot. It is where the vaginal wall and the clitoris hit each…they press up against each other and make the woman orgasm. This happens most the time at the front wall of the vagina where it’s easiest to meet the internal clitoris. Everyone here should watch the documentary…”Why Sex is Fun.” It will talk more about the internal clitoris and the myths about the “g spot”
Britt,
You raise an interesting point- the “front wall of the vagina” is often regarded as the most accessable point for the internal clitoris (or “g-spot”). However, looking at the sonogram photo: “internal erect clitoris”, one would observe that the internal clitiris is seemingly at it’s furthest from the vagina at this point. The most notable obstruction would have to be the urethra.
To be sure, I’m not disagreeing with you (and in fact, based on my own meanderings with the fairer sex, I would agree with you) however I can’t seem to reconcile the distance between these two organs. Has anyone thought about this? Perhaps it is caginal stimulation had caused the bladder itself to contact the internal clitoris? Just a thought… Don’t beat me up if that’s moronic
My mistake! I didn’t look closely enough… Clitoris envelops the Urethra. Thought it merely straddled it. Disregard!
Greatly written post, keep it going!
Great article! Arguably, every sense organ could be described as having evolved for the purpose of seeking pleasure — that is, safety, food, shelter, and sex. It depends how narrowly you choose to define pleasure, I guess! The clitoris does seem to be highly specialized, but I’d be surprised if we didn’t find other evolutionary “goals” for the clit. Given how science has ignored it for so long, it seems likely with further study that we’ll find reasons in addition to sexual pleasure for the existence of the clitoris.
Evolutionary goal: to encourage reproduction.
Thanks to the “design” of the clitoris women who have suffered FGM are able to have surgery and restore sensitivity.
THANK WELL EXPLAIN
I learnt most of what you said in my Women’s Studies but I never understood the physical structure of the clitoris before this so thank you so much for the diagrams!
What I want to know is, how is that stimulation of my nipples is felt in my clitoris?
You are of one body. Mind and body are one. (that goes for both sexes)
GOOD QUESTION!!!! Any woman who has nursed has felt her uterus contract due to the stimulation of the nipples. Some women actually orgasm during nursing…. The entire concept of orgasm is, in my opinion, the body’s way of lubricating and re-sensitizing the entire body so it can RELAX and HEAL. But how exactly it does that, good question…..
Hi Stella Jane,
One major reason why uterine contractions occur during breastfeeding is due to the release of oxytocin. Oxytocin is a smooth muscle stimulation hormone, and it acts primarily on the smooth muscles of the uterus and the mammary glands. I’d encourage you to look up more about oxytocin, its a fascinating hormone
Susan, the Wikipedia article on orgasm has information about that.
Great article! I was just wondering if you know any books or websites giving tips on how to properly stimulate the entire clitoris to achieve orgasm? Thanks!
That is the main question, though amazingly incredibly ignored. It is fascinating to know the anatomy, but putting the knowledge to good use to learn how to really please your partner would be that secret knowledge we all are looking for. I hope the author answers the question, Anne!
All women are different, as the author says, but most women are able to orgasm by rubbing (fingers or otherwise) or oral stimulation against their clitoris.
Quite an enlightening blog. My wish is that these revelations about our humanity would not generate “sex wars”. In a world of far less technology (which has done well to equalize the sexes), I assure your readers that, had the woman been, typically, the physically stronger of the two, men today would have had the same “neglect” complaints today. Our complexities are not so easily understood by the majority and so we should expect a steep learning curve… Now we know better!
Wonderful! and I adore Betty. A living Icon:)
Great article. I’ve always known that there was something “behind my clit” which responded wildly to pressure and manipulation, but I had no idea it encompassed quite so large an area. Betty Dodson’s video presentation also made this extremely easy to follow and visualize. I’m bookmarking this site and going to look for other articles by the writer.
I hate to be the one to do this, but the error nettled me all the way through: It’s Princess Marie BONAPARTE (not Bonepart); she was a great-great-niece of Napoleon.
Unfortunately the anatomy books in Med Schools still don’t reflect his new knowledge. The faulty anatomy was taught to my daughter during Gross Anatomy during her first year as a medical student not long ago as it was to me in the 1980ies. Helen O’Connell’s groundbreaking work is neglected and not easy to get hold of.
“hopefully nice LITTLE inner lips”???? I can’t believe she said this. Way to make every woman who has large inner labia feel inadequate. Personally I LOVE big lips. Labiaplasty is a such an unfortunate practice perpetuated by ignorant attitudes towards a woman’s vulva. Just sayin.
I can’t believe she said that either… because she didn’t…
she said “hopefully nice FULL ones, they’re my favorite”
…i think your bias is showing?
I find it completely weird how feminist ‘spins’ are seen as potentially obfuscating figuring out fact, rather than (as it has done in this case) facilitating getting closer to the truth, or pointing out where society has missed it.
Also, check out Nancy Tuana’s paper ‘Coming to Understand: Orgasm and the Epistemology of Ignorance’. I think you’ll find it interesting.
Thanks you so much for sharing! What an enlightening article! Also love the video.
Interesting, the shape of the clitoris is the same as the shape of the symbol for woman!!!!
Now that we know where it really is, how can we use that information to make it possible to stimulate it best?
As a long-time fan of the clitoris and all of its splendor, I cannot begin to express how ecstatic I am to discover this. I continue to be fascinated by the female body, love to learn more, and look forward to putting what I learn to use.
Huzzah!
Well this will make allot of woman happy!
YAY for saying that! It’s the most important part. The reward of being sensitive enough to do everything that a woman does well.
Amen and Ahhhwomen.
Hi, how does g-spot fit into the picture in light of this new research?
Since the G-Spot is a “vaginal orgasm,” it is a part of the clitoris, according to most researchers.
And a lot of men too! Generally, if she’s not happy in the bedroom, he won’t be nearly as often as he’d otherwise wish.
This is an excellent, fascinating article, thanks! I’m curious about the positions of the inner ends of the clitoris as compared to the rectum. That would be an interesting addition to the images.
WOW TNX 4THE INFO!! SO INTERESTING… I DIDNT KNOW I HAD SUCH A BIG CLIT INSIDE ME
Ok what if its your relationship problems not his lack of vaginal knowledge or the current ‘males are dumb’ culture in western Civ…
PS i love pussies and they love me back
This reminds me of the Socratic dialog where these “philosophers” are arguing about how many teeth are in the mouth of an ass. Finally one of the debators simply says. “why don’t we just go out and count them.”
And that is exactly what this definative work does. It allows us to see it as it is. Zen sex for dummies..
I have been fortunate to enjoy a life playing in a band at a young age, growing up in the eye of hippiedom (14 in 1968), experienceing a myraid of sensual experience (sex, lsd, mescaline, cannabis, mushrooms, music) and fortunately finding myself in a loving marraiage — 35 years and counting. So though I might be close to death at 58 (not really to my knowledge) I have had ample time to fill my head up with quite a bit of experiential carnal knowledge.
And though I’ve intuitively figured out to make most of these contraptions “optimise” I was under the impression that vaginal orgams, for instance, were the result of indirectly related nerve endings. I never thought it was really “all” clitoris.
So I suppose, from now on I will have to think of the clitoris as a “hot iceburg” . . . where most of the mass lies under the surface. Of course the concept is inverse in so many respects. When you rub a regular iceburg it melts. When you rub a ‘hot iceburg” properly it tends to engorge and hopefully cum to life: grinding away till the wee hours of the night. LOL.
LOL. Great article. And this is why we need to preserve a free, unemcombered internet.
I completely loved this. Re-blogged, giving you a link. How could I have gone so friggin’ long without knowing this?!?!?
Copied my teenagers; awesome article; thanks…
Well that explains a LOT. So great to see the things myself and my partners have discovered being legitimized and explained like this!
Thank you for all this knowledge!
What a revalation! Having for years derived pleasure from feeling my partners arousal and organism but not really having a visual of the internal pleasure points this article is wounderous
OMFG! This is amazing, and it explains so much! I want every woman in the world to see this!
This is all a shock to me, and it makes so much sense now. But I was curious, if the clitoris wraps around the vagina is it possible for it to get damaged while a women is giving birth? And if so could it lose sensitivity permanently?
Sam, only the clitoral legs extend that far; it’s not the main body of the clitoris wrapping around the vagina, so the clitoris will not be damaged. Neither will the clitoral legs, for that matter. Think about it, have you heard of damage to the clitoris in this way thus far? Besides that, the vagina contains relatively few nerve endings, which makes child birth significantly less painful than it would be otherwise.
I guess the internal clitors may extend more than described in this article. Some people say that they have extreme orgasm with uterus sex. Uterosex is quite controversial, but if it is true, then the internal clitoris should extend near around the uterus.
This is great and very informative! It’s sad to think people still practice female circumcision…
I think then, that the mysterious g-spot must actually be part of the clitoris. If I’m understanding the images correctly, it should be at the center of the clitoris. If the entire clit is like a starfish with five extensions, the the g-spot ought to be the center of it.
This is a good article. Orgasms are as important as food in my opinion and not a lot of information is dedicated to the female orgasm. I love the female orgasm!
This is a great article. I read Kinsey’s book decades ago, which verified what I already suspected about the mythology of vaginal orgasm being the ‘right’ way. This 3-D sonography explains the multiple loci of stimulation and response. I can’t believe no one has figured this out before now…a profound demonstration of how sexism permeates society. Thank you for the education.
This leads me to believe women either love anal (done right), or haven’t tried it yet
Interesting reading, both article and posts. Being a teacher of Tantra, its interesting because the body of a woman is home to internal mystery. The place where creation and the universe lives. The internal nature clitoris meets with this idea. The crus is where the power of a womans sexuality feeds her internal masculine and feminine, sending energy deep within giving a more complete feeling toward all aspects of life.
Also in a post, I hear that biggest sex organ is the mind. I know modern sex study offers this. But can any human disagree with the pure fact the skin is the largest sex organ? The mind is tiny next to the pure pleasure the skin offers. But, maybe thats because my personal journey is to explore spiritual sex and all it offers and stay embodied rather then be in fantasy, not
that there is anything wrong with fantasy. =)
blossom of life
Thank you so much for this article, drawings, and the video! I’ve known about the internal clitoris for a couple of years, and the video by the artist, Betty, drawing it is awesome. I’ve passed this link on to several female friends, and now let’s get it to the men.
I am wondering one thing that is a little… out there. It is a tad disgusting for some to consider, but i am wondering if the internal part of the clitoris could possibly be accessed through anal intercourse? It is an interesting question at the very least.
Loved this article & the concluding video is priceless. I’ve recently learned more about the female prostrate gland, another part of the female anatomy that men & scientists have known existed but denied it, didn’t study it & often made the women who ejaculate from it believe they were urinating freaks instead. If only our genitals had been covered in such depth at the males. I do my part in getting the information out there, helping to educate both men and women, about their sexuality & genitalia. I have a suspicion that men did not research the female parts out of envy for how much more involved & responsive the female genitalia are.
Also knew there were very sensitive areas that were not located at the glans at all, that felt like clitoral stimulation & orgasms, so I’m happy to see my thoughts confirmed. I’ll be back for more & I shared this out all over. Thanks!
Gina
Fascinating read … thank you
Wonderful! It’s about time this information became more widely discussed. Understanding that the clitoris is in effect a penis, only mostly internal, helps both men and women too understand how to stimulate it more effectively. And helps us to understand why most women need direct stimulation of the head or frenulum of their clitoris, best achieved by their own fingers, in order to orgasm during intercourse. Expecting a woman to orgasm through intercourse alone is like expecting a man to orgasm by only stimulating the base of his penis. It might happen for some men but would take a long time for most just as it does for most women. Most men need adequate stimulation of both the base and head of the penis and ditto women. And yet how often do you see this discussed or see sexual images of women with their fingers on their clitoris’s while they are being penetrated?
Maybe we need some new terminology to better describe female genitals? Medically it’s becoming known as “the Clitorourethrovaginal Complex”. A bit of long-winded I agree! How about “the Clitorovagina”? That may help us all to understand the interconnectedness of what is still considered to be 2 separate sexual entities. (the clitoris and the vagina)
For those who want to read more about this fascinating subject the Wikipedia entry for “the clitoris” is a good place to start. Or try http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1283096/ for the MRI report of Dr. Helen O’Connell’s research. A book called “The Clitoral Truth” by Rebecca Chaulker is great. As are any writings by Shere Hite.
that should have been – A bit long-winded I agree. Not – a bit of long-winded.
“Expecting a woman to orgasm through intercourse alone is like expecting a man to orgasm by only stimulating the base of his penis.”
Some women do orgasm through intercourse alone. And, if fact, some men, including me, can orgasm by only stimulating the base of the penis. I’ve only recently discovered this wonderful fact. The orgasm does not include full ejaculation but feels better and more intense than a typical ejaculatory orgasm, can be full body, can last for several minutes and does not introduce a refractory period (multiple, mind blowing, body shaking orgasms are easy). My best guess is that it’s actually stimulating the internal part of the penis which is the same tissue as the clitoris). Sometimes the feeling is immediate, sometimes it takes a couple minutes of stimulation for the good feelings to kick in. Try it, he’ll like it.
A good text with good informations, but not enough.
So we don`t know the size of the internal clit if it is flaccid and how much by a sexual arousal. How much do the clitoris enlarge inside by an erection??
Why there is no interest for such to know?
Also it would be interesting to know, where exactly women have the most sexual pleasure at the clitoris.
Is it the glans or the area directly below of the glans? And if it is the glans, is it the front side or the back.side?
Btw, by us men we have the most nerves inside the foreskin, so we have more nerve.points there, than in the glans. That`s the reason why we have more pleasure directly below the glans – at the back.side – than we have it at the glans.
By women it seems to be in such a difference to men.
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Wow, this is fascinating…a mew way of visualizing the power of the female body. Thanks!
Thank you for a fascinating article that offers me something important to try to discuss with my doctor. I’m a middle-aged woman with a healthy sex life, but never experienced a “vaginal” orgasm and have always felt a bit confused about why other women cared about having something move inside them when all the fun was just outside the door.
I was also raped as a teenager, including being raped with a knife that left a set of rather nasty deep lacerations that required internal stitching.
Is it possible that my internal clitoris was severed from the rest, and I’ve been missing something for the last 25 years or so? If so, is it worth considering the possibility of repair now? (I was a virgin at the time of the assault, with almost no sexual experience before that.)
This is a very interesting line of research, and I hope to see it funded a great deal further!
http://www.luckymojo.com/tkclitorislarger.html
another link for some interesting info.
Thanks for the info, I’ve been interested in this for quite some time, and it’s great I found your blog
In response to several comments regarding the possibility of stimulating the inner clitoris with anal sex –
Yes, this is possible. I have achieved an orgasm this way on many occassions, often without any prior vaginal sex or stimulation of the external clitoral glans. It produces a really intense organsm, more intense than I usually experience during vaginal sex.
I should point out that for me at least, it only appears to be possible when I am on top and facing my partner (in other words, how you would expect a woman to be conventionally positioned when sitting or lying on top), which makes perfect sense when you consider the angle. However, I can only orgasm during vaginal sex when I’m on top as well, so perhaps we ought not discount the likelihood that this is just how my body is. I feel that this angle may not work if you don’t usually orgasm in the ‘on top’ position. I am also a naturally oversensitive person I think, since I often experience multiple orgasms, and very receptive to touch. But if you achieve orgasmic satisfaction when on top during vaginal sex *and* you are open to the idea of practising anal sex, then trust me, give it a try!
I would like to say that I don’t practise anal sex anymore because I simply don’t enjoy it in any other position than when I’m on top, and also because my current partner does not want to try it. But each to their own. There’s nothing wrong with exploring your body.
Just reading the article about science not knowing what a clitoris looked like until 2009 – I remember reading a sex-ed book in the “back room of our jr high library (where they kept such things back then), and seeing very vivid, detailed female anatomy …and THAT was in 1972, so how is it that the author of that post is under the impression that the clitoris was recently invented?? JT
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I thought your point about the surgeons working to help women who have undergone genital mutilation was very pertinent.
The lack of research into female sexuality is shocking, let us hope that some small positive can come out of such a barbaric practice; education people, and helping victims.
I think, though, there are other parallels that are missing – and in an article about female sex organs, it’s perhaps fair that they are missed.
Without wanting to sound like a what-about-the-men annoying person, I’ve been researching male genital mutilation alongside female genital mutilation for about 7 years and it’s something that really gets to me.
There’s very little education and information about the male foreskin; you’ve rightly compared directly the clitoral glans to the glans penis; they are indeed analogous. But, the hood of the clitoris, which is removed in female circumcision (any other alteration to the vulva or vagina would come under female genital mutilation as well, but not circumcision; circumcision means to cut around, and it’s the removal of the foreskin/hood, for either sex) is analogous to the male foreskin. The male foreskin has about 20,000 nerve endings, which are qualitatively different from those in the glans, which are mainly pressure-sensitive and not fine-touch sensitive (like those in the lips or fingertips are, similar to the foreskin nerves).
This lack of understanding of such a sensitive part of the penis leads so many people to think it’s fine to cut it off. Not so. Just as it is unbelievably wrong to interfere with a woman’s sexual organs, I would love to see an end to people needlessly hacking off the most pleasurable part of a man-to-be’s body.
What kind of psychological impact does this have? Sex is not as it should be, mother-child bonding is affected, breastfeeding impaired, many self-reported cases of PTSD. And why not? Let’s protect the rights of all children to intact genitals and “sex as nature intended it”.
Perhaps, when we stop thinking of sex as taboo and failing to educate each other about those parts of our bodies, such horrors won’t be inflicted on children and we’ll have far more well-adjusted adults amongst us.
Sorry for going slightly off-topic, but I think it’s all relevant; children are very similar, we all develop our vaguely different organs from the same embryonic tissue – I think it’s a travesty that anyone defends anybody’s “right” to take any of that away from someone else. Their body, their choice!
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A really interesting article, which leads me wondering about squirting/gushing. I know from experience that female ejaculation as some call it, is easiest achieved with internal and clitoral stimulation. Does this relate to how much of the clitoras is internal?
My girlfriend Debi emailed this article to me and I will make sure I share it with my buddies who are interested in how to best please their women. I think as a man it is very important for a woman to share this kind of information with her man. This article has certainly motivated me to explore some more with her body. Hoping of course to bring her ultimate pleasure! Thanks for sharing Baby Girl.
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This is just glorious information. I would like – very much – to have a conversation with anyone at this site about what happens to orgasm when the external clitoris is cut off. I’ve done a small study of different tribes in Tanzania, some of who practice “FGM” and others that do not. Trying to find out what happens to sexual excitement and satisfaction is very difficult. I’d really like to know how much is “lost” in feeling when the tip of the clitoris is gone. Perhaps you have some sources that discuss this issue?
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WOW! Absolutely awesome! I have been putting a fair amount of effort in to figuring out how some women experience orgasm during childbirth. This understanding of the clitoris is paramount when considering why some women are able to have an orgasm. Let the research continue!
Wonderful article.
However it does not explain why my clitorial orgasms are so much better when I open my legs as wide as possible.
A big thank you to the researchers.
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Cleverly subtle – but daringly bold… Our artwork is a tribute to the only human organ designed purely for pleasure. Enjoy!
I’d like to thanks Betty Dodson and of course, you, Ms. M to have shared the footage and the drawing. It’s informative, yet interesting and beautiful. I wish i have watched this when I was younger – I used to be shy to my body and did not know how to pleasure myself. Seriously, this clip does help! Thanks for sharing, and caring
Thank you, Lovely!! We’re all on this journey of evolution together! xx
This is a great job. Keep doing this. Also liked your previous write either…
I discovered this page about 2/3 months ago and things started making a lot more sense to me. I had always managed to achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation but after reading this I feel I got to know my body a whole lot better and just 2 weeks ago I achieved my first vaginal orgasm through penetration (penile intercourse) alone with no clitoral stimulation. I am 30 years old and have been sexually active since age 16, I have been with my husband for 7 years. I wasn’t sure at first if this was a true vaginal orgasm as it did feel different from a clitoral one, however there is definitely no mistaking it now…I simply can’t get enough of it! It is like something inside me has woken up and I feel like screaming from the roof-tops. This stuff has got to be true, it makes total sense to me now that the clitoris is much bigger than we think. The type of orgasm i was getting through clitoral stimulation alone was short and intense and very much a release and a great feeling just before the release and during, the vaginal one in comparison is totally different and is more of a whole body and mind experience which leaves me completely relaxed, much like a chemical drug.
I would like to thank the people who wrote this as I think it is very informative. I would also like to urge women out there who have never experienced this type of orgasm to go get it, you CAN do it..you just haven’t learned how yet! Firstly I think you need to be very much in love with your partner and very much in the mood for sex as well as relaxed and confident. The sex we have been having is very different now, its less ‘in and out’ and more ‘pressure in the right place’ we have been going much deeper and rocking to apply pressure (not friction!) in the right area’s of my abdomen. This completely makes sense when you feel it and look at this picture as we were applying the pressure against the ‘inside clit’ the bit we cant usually see or feel. I somehow in my head thought it would be about friction, like it is with a clitoral orgasm, but it isnt..it’s the pressure. Anyways we have been at it like rabbits ever since and I have come each time this way and I honestly feel like my whole life is perfect now, everyone should try this but I can’t stress enough that I think it has to be with someone you love and trust wholeheartedly and I don’t know if my age has something to do with it, like I say I am 30 now so maybe hitting a peak. In any event, it’s awesome
So thank you betty for your great drawing and thank you melodiousmsm for this article, I have lived my whole life never knowing that this existed in my own body and finding it has changed everything for the better!