It’s a rare occasion wher my mind changes and I actually feel something. This did it. It really completely changed how I see pole dancing – it’s not a sexual thing any longer but, closer to traditional (read socially accepted) dance.

There is a mask. And urination. And electronic device self-pleasuring (at 6:14 to be precise). Extremely NSFW. Enjoy.

This Thursday, May 9th, at 8:00pm EST, we’ll be co-hosting a live Google Hangout with Greatist to focus on sex and relationships in the digital age.

See more of Reka Nyari’s work at WAN·DER·LUST, a group exhibition currently on view through the end of May at 72 Wooster Street in Soho.

Ms. M. tackles a shoe fetishist, a man who lactates, sitophilia, brothers who bang chicks together, and the curious question of figging.

Mothers who visit the Museum on May 12, 2013 will get free admission and a complimentary champagne cocktail.

Save on tickets to see Pippin with this special discount just for friends of the Museum.

“Ladyism” is, in short, the ideology of the woman who thinks that God and the State is on her side and that all would be well if we could only just imprison, kill or enslave all of those improper deviants, sluts, layabouts and never-do-wells.

Online behavioral data is a powerful tool for determining which bits of anatomy men find most arousing and which qualities of the male personality turn on women the most; indeed, this flood of new online data is the most powerful research tool in the history of sex science. But there are still facets of human desire which remain difficult to analyze using online data. One of these is erotic role-playing in the bedroom—such as asking your man to dress up like Smokey the Bear.

But why in the world would anyone become sexually aroused—sexually fixated, you might say—on amateurs in wet clothing? The answer is somewhat different than the explanation of men’s predilection for breasts or women’s predilection for billionaires. Breasts and billionaires are both cued interests. Most wetlook, however, may be an uncued interest.